Everything you see on the site right now: the articles, the graphics, the advertisements, the links, the giveaways, the newsletter, etc. I couldn’t help myself, despite the fact that my entire life consisted of working and focusing on my projects.
In general, when us guys really like a girl, we sometimes kid ourselves into thinking that being with that girl or being in a relationship will make life easier.
I had no energy to devote to the relationship and I had no mental/emotional room to worry about it.I really liked the girl though and I hoped that things would just work out.Truth is, I really did not have room for the relationship to be what I felt it needed to be.When my ex-boyfriend and I broke up after being together for almost a year, he said he was too young to be tied down to just one girl and he had too many things on his plate (his school, his band, etc).At first I thought he just didn’t want me to move on from him, but then he called me and told me he missed being in a relationship with me and that he missed me since I hadn’t talked to him for three days).
I am going to answer this question a little differently than the other AAGs and rather than giving my thoughts as an objective outside observer, I’m going to tell a story that may shed a lot of light on where this guy is coming from.
When Sabrina and I started A New Mode, she and I were working on it during every free hour we had. At that time, I got into a relationship with a girl I cared very much for.
I would work a 9 hour work day, come home and then work on A New Mode until midnight.
Then I would go to my girl’s place and pass out immediately.
I started to feel bad about what our relationship was like.
I was basically just an exhausted body to sleep next to.