If you're getting responses from the wrong types of people or not getting as many responses as you'd like, then review your profile and think about how you can improve it and make yourself shine a little bit more.
Learn how to be a better husband, a better lover and a better partner.
Dating young women is a particular challenge for guys.
If you are dating women who are under the age of 25 and you are 7 or more years older than she is, you need to read this article on dating young women.
Good Words: Affectionate, Likes to cuddle, interested in a committed relationship, sensitive, great cook, romantic, caring, monogamous, down to earth, looking for best friend, educated, sophisticated, loving, generous, cute, reliable, my colleagues describe me as handsome, great legs, petite, curvaceous, hourglass figure, gentleman.
Words to Avoid: Some of the bad stuff I have seen in ads.
(On some systems, you will get terminated using some of this language whether in your profile or in an email).
These guys have read too many Penthouse magazines and need to look in the alternative personals.
Here is what NOT to put in a personal on a regular/metro site: Well hung, great in bed, I'd love to satisfy you, sexually insatiable, animal, great lover, oral, blow, make love, erotic, uninhibited and any other sexual words.
This stuff is SCARY to most women and runs them off.
You can tweak and improve your profile as you go along.
Tweaking your profile: If you're getting the type of responses you're looking for, great.